4 Floors of Whores - Orchard Towers, Singapore

The place where you cannot go wrong in Singapore is the infamous Orchard Towers. Orchard Towers is well known so you shouldn’t have to know more than the name to get a cabbie to drop you there. In some business circles it’s known as “Four Floors of Whores”. It’s literally a four story building with (at any given time) between 6 and 12 bar/nightclubs. Apart from waitresses, just about every girl you see inside any of these bars is available for sex. Let me warn you now. It can be a bit high pressure and many of the girls would like nothing more than to entice you to a table so that they can stake claim to you for the night. My advice is to keep moving, keep eye contact to a minimum, and don’t get suckered into sitting down and buying a drink for someone until you’re ready. There’s no cover charge for men at these bars. The women pay for the privilege of being inside so feel free to stroll in, make a couple of loops, and stroll on to the next place depending on your time table. The girls will be flirty and sometimes outright aggressive with ass grabbing and through the pants rubbing pretty common. I have gone to Orchard Towers just to have the pleasure of a girl rubbing me through my pants…without the intention of taking anyone home. I have also gone with the intention of taking someone home and not being able to choose from the packs of beautiful girls. I call that sensory overload and it’s only happened to me once. I thought my brain would explode! Avoid the places that require you sit at a table because it’ll be like a cattle call until you pick one, two or three women to sit with you. Then you’re stuck buying overpriced drinks for the ladies. The bars change constantly so it’s not worth mentioning any by name but it’s easy to hop from one to the next until you find your perfect woman to take home for a hour or an evening.

Speaking of perfect women… You will find some of the most gorgeous women on Earth at Orchard Towers. Don’t get me wrong, there are some real dogs here too but the classic Asian beauties are easy to pick out of the crowd. A word of advice: If you find a girl that takes your breath away, go for her right away. Even if it means leaving your current table mate to talk to the gorgeous one, do it. I have twice missed out on incredible beauties; once because it was so early in my quest and once because I was seated with a girl I didn’t want to offend. The real beautiful ones will also be noticed by other men and most will not return later. Some men have enough money to keep these beauties for the night. Speaking of money, the price can vary in Singapore but when I was last there it was about $100 USD for a couple hours of "companionship". i hear it's more like $200 (starting point) now.  Try to talk Sing Dollars if you can. Prices may have changed since but with the right woman, it’s well worth the money.

For more advice on Singapore, I recommend you visit www.worksexguide.com and www.sammyboytimes.com There is a lot of legal brothel activity in and about Geylang which I have never visited during the evening. Like I mentioned previously, there are also plenty of opportunities in bars, restaurants, and karaoke places. The karaoke places are pretty expensive as you’re going to pay for a room and the girls and the booze. If you’re with a big group, or even better on the company dime, this might be a good way to go. For the most part, the karaoke girls are available for dating. They may have some strict house rules so you may have to wait until the next day/night or until they are off work that night. Hope you’re recovered from your jet lag!

Using Tagged for Your Search (International Mongering)

Remember our goal of FSA is to find a non-professional relationship.  Anyone can find a pay-for-play relationship on the road.  Finding a girlfriend type relationship is the challenge.  For finding that no-strings-attached, erotic, international relationship, Tagged is a great tool.  You can find tagged at www.tagged.com.   It has about 10,000,000 users of which 64% are female.

First you need to create an account profile on Tagged and this is pretty easy.  Of course you should use your “Alter Ego” name, email, etc.  Your profile details are up to your discretion.  I use a stock photo of a celebrity with looks similar to mine.  A photo will definitely help you to make friends on Tagged.  Once you’ve established your alter ego profile and logged in, it’s time to begin your search.  Your goal is to create a pool of friends from which to choose.  The larger the pool, the more likely you will be successful in finding a handful of potential partners.  I suggest you pare down your choices to 3 to 5 candidates.  Any more and you’ll have a hard time making personal connections because you’ll lose track of details – a lady like to know you are listening to her and remembering what she tells you.  Here’s is how you’ll build your larger pool:

Begin your search in the browse mode by selecting “People”, “Browse”.  You’ll get a large window with a smaller search window on the left side of your screen entitled “BROWSE”. (pictured)  There you can put in your criteria.  In this case I’ve selected Gender: Female, Age: 18-25, Country: Columbia.  This will work for any country in the world.  There is also an option for proximity to cities.  For example I could have searched to find females within 5 kilometers of Bogota.  Obviously the narrower your search, the fewer potential partners identified.

Once you’ve browsed using the “Update” button you will see your choices in 5 columns and as many rows as your search has returned.  From here you can select your potential partners.  In this step in the process, the more friends you can invite, the better because some will respond to you and others will not.  You want to build your pool of potentials and then begin to cull them down to about 5 targets.  Once you see their profile pictures, you’ll know which ones to select.  Be aware though, that the racier photos will probably have more competition for you than the more mild ones.  Select one at a time for a “Mini View”.

Once you’ve selected a mini view you are on the girls profile page and can see some important information.  The two most important pieces of info (on the right hand side of her picture) are “Last Active” (which tells you when she was last on Tagged) and “Profile Views” (which tells you how many people have viewed her profile).  On the left hand side of her picture are your options: “Add to Friends”, “Send Message”, and “Send a Wink”.

I think the best and easiest option is “Add to Friends” .  That simply opens the window to see if she’s at all interested in you.  She’ll either respond positively, negatively, or not at all.  Do this for as many as you want, knowing that not all will accept your friendship.  Use “Send a Message” if you want to flirt with her a bit or get to know her.  I’d use this in conjunction with “Add to Friends”.  If you’re a little more adventurous with a little more time on your hands you can choose “Send a Wink” to electronically flirt with her a bit.  Maybe she’ll ask you to be friends then.

How you move your new found relationships to the next step is up to you.  I recommend transitioning the relationship to regular email and/or an instant messaging system like Yahoo IM.  Some sites will have limitations about sharing your personal contact details so you may have to be a bit cryptic about how you trade info.  My suggestion is to use the same alter ego profile name as your alter ego email address.  For example if your email is johnsmith1@yahoo.com then your profile name should be johnsmith1.  That way you can tell her to contact you via email.  “What’s your email?”  “My username at yahoo.”

My experience on Tagged is that you will have more luck in some countries than others.  For me it worked well in Kenya and Columbia; not so well in Mexico.  As for the U.S., you can try but I’m not as confident that you can build a database of ladies as easily as in the developing world.

Have fun building your portfolio of potential girlfriends.  Take it slow.  Be polite and patient.  Don’t ask for too much too soon.  You’ll be rewarded with more girls than you can handle.  Enjoy and may you FSA!

Should Gentlemen's Clubs be Included in Your Mongering Quest? (Local Mongering)

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Should Cam Sites Be Part of Your Mongering Preparation? (International Mongering)

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How should I spend my preparation time? (International Mongering)

Advertising?  Perusing advertisements (whether they be on the internet, in a newspaper, or on one of those sexy business cards) CAN work, but it can be very risky, very costly, and it isn't for everyone.  Keep this in mind… whenever possible, you should back up advertisements with actual reviews.  Scouring the ads is what you do when all else fails.

How about WORD-of-MOUTH? Basically, we're talking REFERRALS here. A good referral from a friend or business associate can be very valuable.  However, these referrals are often for professional services.  Think about it.  Who’s going to refer you to their girlfriend they plan to see again?  On the other hand, if their girlfriend has a friend you may have found an excellent source of leads.  WOM can definitely be a good thing. 

So what about SOCIAL MEDIA? If you’re starting from scratch in your search for an erotic encounter there is no better place than SOCIAL MEDIA.

The question should not be, "Which social media site is best?" The question SHOULD be "HOW can I use and leverage multiple social media sites to give me more choices from my search?"

In the next installment we’ll take a quick look at some social media sites where you might leverage your opportunities for erotic encounters with willing partners. 

Why is Preparation SO IMPORTANT? (International Mongering)

PREPARATION will be the key to your success.  This is especially the case if you’re traveling internationally. In this blog, I’m advocating a dating type relationship - one that needs a little anticipatory cultivating.  Anyone can find a “pay for play” opportunity but, if you can begin your search for a willing partner in advance – a month, two weeks, even one week, you can find a non-pro and you’re going to benefit in the following ways:

You’ll be able to plan your encounters to be more CONVENIENT.  With preparation, convenience takes many forms.  You’ll be able to plan from home with a secure and familiar internet connection.  If you have a choice of partners, you’ll be able to research their locations and determine which makes the most sense for you.  You may also be able to adjust your hotel room or schedule to better suit your needs.

You’ll save TIME.  As you know, with either work travel or personal travel, time is a precious commodity.  Spend your time on preparation at home instead of scrambling around trying to force something to happen in a foreign country.  Always remember that lack of time can result in impulse (or bad) decisions.

You’ll be more SAFE.  Safety should always be in the forefront of your mind.  Remember that impulse decisions can be dangerous.  In your preparation, you will be able to vet the unscrupulous people you might meet without preparing.  More importantly you’re more likely to find a safe sex option. 

You’ll be able to think with your BRAIN.  We all know that even with the best intentions, there are circumstances where your common sense is lost and your you-know-what takes over the thinking process.  Preparation will serve to minimize that little head mentality and allow you to make decisions with your big head.

You’ll save MONEY.  In the end it all comes down to money.  Having a choice, using your time wisely, vetting your potential partners, and making sound decisions all contribute to the best use of your money.  Ideally you will spend little more than the cost of a meal.  But impulse decisions can lead to desperation, which leads to overspending.

REMEMBER preparation is the key to your success.  You wouldn’t interview job candidates without first reviewing their resumes, right?  You wouldn’t but a car without first test driving it, right?  Therefore, don’t go mongering without identifying your potential partners and vetting them a little bit.  Happy hunting and may you FSA!

Is Your Asian Massage Parlor (AMP) Doing More Than Massage (Local Mongering)

Ever wonder if that massage parlor down the street is offering more than massage?  Ever wonder if those ads in your weekly newspaper (showing beautiful young Asian gals) deliver what they allude to?  Or are you just looking for a place near home or work to relieve some of your stress?  Read on for a three step, practically fail-proof, method of answering your questions.

First though, if you haven’t done so, you’ll need to find your local AMP.  I want to emphasize that I use the term AMP or Asian Massage Parlor loosely.  Depending on where you live, there may be AMP-like opportunities with non-Asian workers.  There are plenty of Hispanic massage places and probably a few African ones as well.  It is very rare however to find a white American massage parlor that offers anything more than a strict massage. 

To find your local AMP you can do a number of things. 

First, there’s word of mouth.  Obviously if a friend or acquaintance has visited a place and recommended it, that is your best bet.  Second, as mentioned above, there are weekly newspapers – a majority of which will let massage parlors advertise.  Third, you may have driven by an AMP, seen the phone number on its window and wondered hmmmmmm?

If you have a phone number out of an advertisement or off a storefront window, that’s all you’ll need for my “practically fool-proof” method of determining if your AMP is providing happy endings.  This is a simple three-step process that we’ll keep as simple as possible.

1)      Call the phone number to your prospective AMP and listen to whoever answers the phone.  Is English her second language?  If so, chances that you’ve found an AMP providing more than massage are 33%.

2)      Next, ask how late they are open.  If the answer is later than 8:00 PM, your chances that this is an AMP providing more than massage are now 66%

3)      Finally, ask if you need an appointment or if you can just walk in.  If the response is that you can just walk in, you’ve found your AMP…99% anyway.

The theory of this simple three-step process is that (a) these places are almost all populated with non-English speakers, (b) no self-respecting legitimate massage place stays open past 8:00, and (c) any legitimate massage place will most likely require an appointment.

Use this tool in your mongering quest and may you FSA!  Happy Endings.