Third World Countries
The third world is incredible as far as opportunities for sex. If you like the looks of women in a certain region, by all means visit that place and prepare to have the time of your life. You should be very careful however. In fact, in my opinion, you should stay away from the brothels where the sex is cheap and dirty. You should always use a condom and whenever possible, have your potential girlfriend tested for sexually transmitted diseases before you sleep with them (and especially before you sleep with them without a condom). Medical tests are not expensive at all and a matter of a couple bucks…a life and death matter. I have a different approach to the third world that I think you will find to be fun and worthwhile. I’ll talk about a couple of places in this chapter; the Philippines and Kenya. For all intents and purposes, you can assume that most of my advice for the Philippines will apply to most third world Asian countries and my advice for Kenya will apply to most African countries.
The Philippines
The Philippines is a wonderful place to visit and frolic with the natives. Philippine women have such an exotic look with their mix of Chinese, Japanese, and Spanish and American heritage. Some tribes in the Philippines even have Aboriginal roots. The result is a melting pot of really good looking variations on an Asian theme.
Bars and Bar Girls
If you research the Philippines at all, it won’t take long to run across the theme of Philippine Bar Girls. In most of the major cities you will find theme bars filled with young, hot hostesses and dancers. These girls are beautiful and the first time you enter one of these bars you will be overwhelmed by the beauty that surrounds you. They are also very good at making you feel very desirable…never a bad thing for the ego. However, just remember that the bar girls only objective is to seduce you into a quickie BJ at your table, or a trip to your hotel room. There are many sites devoted to Philippine bar girl sex and don’t be afraid to explore them. You should know that there is a thing called a “bar fine” at most of these places. A bar fine is what you will pay if you want to take the girl out of the bar and home for some period of time. You will want to take one home so you should know this in advance. Also know that the time and money is negotiable with the mamasan or bar owner. There are all kinds of strategies that the experts have out there to entice bar girls to give you excellent service or to stay with you for multiple nights. You can read about them on the various sites. My favorite however is where you take a girl back to your hotel where you have strategically placed articles about marrying Filipinas and government forms for beginning such a process. The girls will snoop around your room a bit if you let them. When they find those strategically placed items, they will go the extra mile for you because it may mean a ticket out of the poverty of the Philippines. Some may consider this sleazy but remember, you’re not lying to her…your just leaving some stuff around for her to peruse if she’s snoopy.
Dating
There is another way to score in the Philippines and that’s through a normal dating relationship. Don’t worry, this is not like the U.S. where you can spend $200 on a meal and get a peck on the cheek at the end of the night for your troubles. A Filipina that agrees to go out with a foreigner for dinner is practically a sure thing. I know what you’re thinking too and yes, the articles and forms will work on non-pros…probably even better. The best way to get a date in the Philippines (unless you’ve already been on www.adultfriendfinder.com and arranged) is to frequent a shopping mall or restaurant, find a girl you like the looks of, and ask her to dinner. Again, this isn’t the U.S. where you’ll be humiliated 100 times to get one date. Go for it and I’ll bet you get a date within three tries. The Philippines is a poor country and even girls with jobs will be happy to have a nice dinner out with a foreigner. If they want to go back to your hotel with you for a drink, even better. Don’t pressure them though…try to remember that you picked this girl up in a shopping mall not at a hostess bar. Just a warning…the girl may fall in love with you so be careful of her heart. Sex for love, however, just may be better than sex for money. A normal girl with a job will most likely be cleaner and nicer than a hardened bar girl. She may need your guidance in bed. She will most likely not understand your fetishes…especially if they involve girl-on-girl action. So treat her well and make sure she gets home on time ;-)
Author’s Experience: My first visit to a hostess bar in the Philippines was spectacular and I wish I traveled there once or twice a year. I sat down with a friend and a drop-dead gorgeous girl walked off the stage to whisper in my ear (or so I thought). What actually happened was she stuck her tongue in my ear and reached down and grabbed my cock through my pants. I was instantly hard and my friend had to really pull me out of that place kicking and screaming. We were on to the next bar however.
My best experience though was a girl who served my table at Jolly Bee of all places. Jolly Bee is like the Philippine McDonalds. The uniform wasn’t very attractive but I could tell she was sporting a set of delicious breasts beneath that polyester…unencumbered by a bra I might add. I didn’t think she was going to say yes at first but it turns out she was just a little surprised and a bit shy. She asked if a friend of hers could accompany us and I reluctantly agreed. When I picked the two up three hours later, the transformation was incredible. They were no longer Jolly Bee workers but sexy Asian kittens looking like they were ready to go clubbing. The friend only stayed for drinks (probably just a comfort to my girl) and then promptly left. My hopes of a threesome were dashed but I was happy to be alone with Monica. It was not difficult after dinner to talk her into coming back to my room for a drink. It wasn’t long after that that we were frolicking in the Jacuzzi tub the hotel had kindly provided in my bathroom. Our relationship lasted three days. I couldn’t stand to have her only for a night so we made a date for the next night and all of Saturday. We explored each other and got to know each other pretty well. I was honest with her at the start so she was not expecting any marriage to come of it. We still email occasionally and I will visit her again someday soon.
5 Tips for Successful Mongering in the Philippines:
1) The Philippines is definitely a place to try the legitimate dating scene. Hiring an outright pro should be your back up plan here. You’re much better off finding a beautiful girl who likes foreigners. Find a nice girl and get her to agree to a dinner date. I can almost guarantee that if you take a Filipina woman to dinner, you can end up with an awesome sexual encounter as repayment.
2) By all means visit the hostess bars. They are not to be missed! If you find a girl you like, you will need to negotiate a bar fine with the mamasan or manager. It should not be too much but remember that once you have the girl alone, you can negotiate with her to stay with you for a night, a week, or a month. It’s your call. Just know there are many fish in the sea so don’t get yourself into a situation where you negotiate for a month and them renege on the deal because you see a more beautiful girl the nest night. The girls can be competitive and jealous so try to avoid leading them on as to an exclusive relationship. My advice is to be open and honest up front.
3) Check into the dating sites. In the Philippines, there are many women wanting to date and marry. This works to your favor as the girls will be sexual dynamos in bed in order to please and entice you. Again, I say that both as an encouragement and a warning. Try AFF and Google “Philippines dating”. You will find many sites that cater to the Filipina on the hunt.
4) Try the World Sex Guide for recommendations. Find a helpful member who can introduce you to willing women. It never hurts to have a fellow monger buddy to show you the ropes. I had a friend take me out to the girlie bars and had a blast. It was sexual stimulus overload and it was a good thing he was there to keep me somewhat level headed.
5) The Filipinas are just starting to understand about men’s girl on girl fantasies. Still, when you are there they may not be too enthusiastic about tag team action. It still doesn’t hurt to tell your girl your fantasies to see how she reacts. Watch her carefully before and after any fantasy is acted out. Remember, your first girl will expect to be your primary and therefore the “manager” of any other girl you bring along. If you find yourself tiring of your girl, go to another bar and start over. It will help to avoid a conflict if you change hotels or even just your room. If you’re tipping a security guard or doorman, let him know that you don’t want unexpected visits from ex-girlfriends. Finally, don’t stiff the girl out of your agreement. It’s not much money to you and it’s an awful lot to her.
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